what the real definition of real life and how it may be and it can be and how it could be and how it really is. All tricks of the trade can be used and all things of how to cure the problem by adding more problems to create more problems for all the problems in life. that's really enough, not so... somethings that don't cause problems wont be problems for the person(s). All notd real life has all the balance it need how would a person or things create the problem in the first place....