Your culture and how you were brought up forms your wants and needs of your life. You are taught as a toddler to like toys and want the things you are shown. This is the culture of today. The things we need are less likely the things we want and this creates hidden motives to figure out how to get these things that really have no significance in our lives. Determining the want from the need and clearly clarifying this to another without scheming or misdirecting each other seems to be the way most people accomplish there goals rather then being straight forward with our agendas. When is this the case?