I write Oracle of the Day posts, poems, and a book. These creative activities help me manage my mental illness, especially Borderline Personality Disorder. Being open about my mental health is important to me. I wrote a poem for my husband. A friend once said you can learn a lot about a man by looking at his hands and mouth. I love my husband’s lips. I call him "daddy" because I am his submissive, and he is my dominant. This relationship builds trust and safety. It’s hard to believe I once hesitated to be his sub; now it feels natural and fulfilling.