I Will if You Will It was like standing at a shoreline on an uncertain day, eyes searching,stalled in worry, wondering whether to take the plunge. Life carried on all around me like the beach on a sunny day. Life splashed and played, built palaces out of mere sand, reclined in restful shade, flung itself about like a Frisbee in flight, warmed itself in summer's rays and friendship's glow. But me? I