I’m right here. Why can’t anybody see me? My parents separated before I was old enough to realize what a relationship was supposed to be. Doomed from the start I guess. My mom was a busy woman who was always working & even when she was home I don’t think she knew where her own off switch was. My parents had a big beautiful traditional wedding, it’s what my mom wanted, but things didn’t go the way she planned. My dad was a federal police officer in Mexico so he was always traveling but that wasn’t all.. he was always looking for the new shiny thing to catch his eye.