Well if your a first time mom there something you need to know if your kid needs a burp you need to hold him up high or her their head is over your filter and pat their back or you can rub that burp off of it or she isn't burping good burping good and you can also set them up hold their their head in burp them that way in that sometimes it works and if your first time Mom let them sleep and while I sleep you need to sleep and I know that it is hard but you can do it you might cry let yourself cry it's okay but you'll get through it in the end when they get older it's easier mine is 1 years old