

Why Love Hurts (and What It Teaches Us)


Why does it hurt so bad to care for someone?
Because caring means giving a piece of yourself away. When you love someone, you invest your time, energy, trust, and heart. That kind of vulnerability is powerful but it also leaves you open to being hurt. The deeper you care, the deeper the wound feels when things go wrong.
Why does heartbreak cut deeper than anything else?
Heartbreak feels heavier because it touches every part of you your mind, your emotions, your self-worth, even your body. Unlike other kinds of pain, love is tied to hope and dreams you created with someone else. When it ends, it’s not just the person you lose it’s the future you imagined together.
So why does love hurt at all?
Because love is risk. It asks us to let down our guard, to trust, to give pieces of ourselves we can’t always get back. But in that risk is also beauty because the same thing that can break you is also what can teach you how strong you really are.