Its been over a year now. More than that actually, today is 16 months. 16 months and it still doesn't make sense. Well, not good sense at least. It doesn't make good sense to me. It certainly doesn't good sense to the kids. How do you explain your absence to a 24 year old with traumatic brain injury and the mental capacity of a small child? Or to a 16 year old who is so lost and angry and ashamed