When you feel like she’s not into you anymore, the right mindset is self-respect over chasing. Don’t panic or overexplain. Distance and silence are information—pay attention to actions, not words. Attraction fades when effort becomes one-sided, and chasing only lowers your value. Shift your thinking from “What’s wrong with me?” to “Why am I trying to convince someone who isn’t choosing me?” Stay calm, grounded, and confident. Be willing to lose her to keep yourself. Focus on your purpose, growth, and peace. Whether she comes back or not, you win—because the real loss would be forgetting who you are while trying to hold onto someone who already let go.