God didn’t call you to live in confusion or guilt. He calls you to peace. Boundaries are not rejection; they are wisdom. You are allowed to grow, heal, and protect what God is restoring in you. You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. Boundaries are choosing to honor what God says about your worth. Growth often feels uncomfortable because it requires you to stop accepting what you once tolerated. Even Jesus didn’t give everyone access to Him. Boundaries aren’t unloving; they’re biblical.

There's no blueprint when you're building something from nothing- just an idea, a lot of doubt, and the decision to keep going anyway. Some days it feels exciting, other days it feels like you're putting in effort with nothing to show for it. But maybe that quiet, unseen progress is where the real growth is happening.

Lately, I've been caught between frustration and quiet progress. I keep thinking about everything I still haven't accomplished, everything that feels unfinished. But at the same time, I can't ignore how far I've come. I've changed in ways that aren't always visible, and I've kept going even when it felt hard. I'm not where I want to be yet, but I'm not where I used to be either ... and maybe learning to recognize that is part of the growth too.

This article explores how shame can be triggered by others’ words and reactions, and how it doesn’t define who we are. By learning to recognize and “press” the lies behind shame, we can return to truth, set healthy boundaries, and remember our identity in God.

This is not the self-help book that tells you to think positive and try harder. This is the one that sits down next to you in the dark and says, I know. Me too. Not Allowed to Quit: A Survival Guide for When You Have Nothing Left was written for the people who are still showing up even when showing up feels impossible. If you are exhausted, if the bright and shiny advice has only ever made you feel more broken, if you just need someone to be honest with you for once, you are in the right place. Seven chapters. Real talk. Reflection prompts to help you process at your own pace. Written by someone still finding her way out, for anyone who needs to know they are not alone in the fight.

Sumptuous creamy shrimp salad croissant sandwich best reserved for late night snacks. Any type of shrimp will do. Mix with lemon juice, dill weed, and seasoning to your liking. Make it into a sandwich and feast away at those late midnight hours, use greens and light mayonnaise, I like to throw in my favorite vegetable for the occasion. Maybe add a slice of tomato. Finish with some salt and pepper. Finish quickly, those shrimp don't wait around!!!

This writing is reflection of the few days I spent in the psych ward after a phase of overdose. enoy the read.

You view the ocean, you see beauty I see the color of a tear... Depression can alter your vision and desire toward life's beauty while the rest of the world seems to be enjoying.

For this new note, I’d like to take the time to share an introduction to myself as a writer. Nearly six years ago, I faced a serious health challenge when I had a pulmonary embolism that stopped my heart. I was without a heartbeat for about forty-three minutes.

Anxiety can get the best of us, but there are ways to rewire our thinking, and you are not alone. This post offers encouragement and practical tips to help you take back control.

Here’s the thing: the standard two-liter advice is aimed at the average adult. But does it meaningfully account for individual variability?

The main summary of my streams will be about the breakdown and visual representation of my interpretation of what different mental health conditions look like and feel like for many people. I am writing these to not just describe what this may feel like but to also provide insight and a bit of hope to anyone reading these.

TAlking about this girl that broke up wit me and now wants to get back wit me any tips plsssssssssss???

Behind the brochures and buzzwords, assisted living isn’t always what it seems. This is a raw, unfiltered look at the humanity that fights to survive in a system obsessed with numbers

Telling my story of how I survived a widow maker heart attack, my changed life and how I am mentally coping with all of the changes I have had to make in order to live without fear of dying.

Capturing life's smaller moments sometimes acts as its own reminder to put down the phone. Making a small change can really help you hone in on the depth of being mindful. Keep going. You can do it! I believe that making small changes to your daily routine can help in so many ways.

Puddle of Mudd and some weird life. Keeping all my little weirdos in my heart and casting out good wishes to anyone who is going through the motions of life.

How to bring the personalization back to healthcare when we move further and further away using digital tools.

If you or someone you know is feeling "inauthentic," it usually manifests in one of these three ways: ​The "Chameleon" Effect: You find yourself shifting your opinions, hobbies, or even your tone of voice depending on who you are talking to, leaving you wondering who you actually are when you're alone. ​Performative Exhaustion: Feeling like life is a series of "posts" or "scenes." You do things because they look right or because they are expected, rather than because they bring you joy. ​The Fear of the "Unfiltered" Self: A deep-seated belief that if people saw the messy, unpolished version of your thoughts, they wouldn't like you. This often leads to heavy "masking." "Knowing is only half the battle; the other half is being"...

My brain for example is a f***ed up mess of neurons misfiring into oblivion while some rainbow gayish unicorn is changing the channel constantly. *My borderline thoughts on DEI and what it means for myself.