In this exploration of narcissistic dynamics, we examine the sobering reality behind why individuals with narcissistic personality traits struggle to experience or express genuine love. The core of the issue lies in a profound lack of empathy and emotional depth, which prevents them from forming the authentic, vulnerable connections that define healthy relationships. For a narcissist, "love" is not an emotional bond but a transactional tool. They view partners as sources of "supply"—admiration, status, or logistical support—rather than as complex human beings. The article details how they often "perform" love through mimicry and love-bombing to secure this supply, only to withdraw affection when their needs are no longer met. By understanding that this incapacity is a fundamental internal deficit and not a reflection of the partner's worth, survivors can begin to detach from the cycle of seeking validation from someone who is emotionally bankrupt.