When enough is enough? This essay was written after a inner tug of war. For years I've battled on when it was enough to stop friendships or general life problems, I had always wanted to give people the benefit of the doubt or I made excuses for them because I was always scared to rock the boat. I didn't know how to set healthy boundaries and I found it easier to settle. So after a batlle of my inner voice and seeing the forest for the trees I decided enough was enough. I hope this essay will help someone If you struggling to make a choice or just need that 1 thing to push you to letting go then I hope this finds you and helps you. Growing g up I was from a dysfunction that no child should ever have to bear, and I avoided conflict. I always got hurt for not seeing red flags or just being naiive. I have dedicated my life to try and help others. It will hurt sure but compared to what I have had to handle is nothing compared to the freedom of knowing when enough was enough.