A few nights ago, my friends and I were having dinner together. My friends and I were joking about who gives a ‘dad vibe’ and a ‘mom vibe.’ I asked “What about me?” and everyone paused. One of my friends said, “You give a Yingyee vibe. It’s always admirable how even when life punches you in the stomach, you’re still always so ambitious and hopeful about where you’re at.” What my friend said made me