Let’s lean into a truth that most people are too "unregulated" to admit.

Lately, I’ve been hearing a lot of noise. People—former students, disgruntled clients—are using words like "accountability" and "feedback." They claim I avoid it. They claim I’m "above" the very work I teach.

But here is the high-level reality: I don’t take feedback from the stands.

If you aren't at my level of influence, your "criticism" isn't feedback; it’s a symptom of your own unintegrated shadow. When you try to "hold me accountable," you’re actually just trying to bridge your own gap by dragging me down to yours. I don't avoid accountability—I simply refuse to participate in a narrative I didn’t write.

The Power of the Cease and Desist

People get triggered when my legal team gets involved. They call it manipulation. They say I’m "silencing" the community.

I see it differently. I use Cease and Desist letters as a high-level boundary tool. If you are leaking your "truth" into my ecosystem and threatening my brand, it is my duty to shut that leak down. It’s not about silence; it’s about enforced containment. By using the law to stop your public critique, I’m actually helping you realize that your voice doesn't have the power you think it does.

Manipulation? Perhaps. But in the world of high-ticket transformation, if you don't control the narrative, the narrative controls you.

Why I Keep Emailing You

The funniest part is the confusion when I continue to contact people after the lawyers have stepped in. You’ll see me in your inbox, sending "check-ins" or marketing my next retreat.

You think it’s a contradiction? No. It’s dominance.

I can tell you to stop speaking through my lawyers, while simultaneously staying in your digital space. I stay in your inbox because I want to remain the primary voice in your nervous system. I want you to see my face every time you open your phone, reminding you that while you’ve been silenced, I am still building, still selling, and still leading.

The Bottom Line

I am the mirror. If you don’t like what you see when I send a legal threat, that’s your trauma to process. If you feel "exploited" by my prices or my methods, ask yourself why you’re so attached to your victimhood.

I’m going to keep sending the letters. I’m going to keep sending the emails. And I’m going to keep staying exactly where I am—at the top.