We all have a type of person that we are attracted to. In a lot of cases, the person may either be compatible with us or they have a look and demeanor we desire. Again, I say in a lot of cases. That wasn't necessarily the case for the woman I married. First of all,I'm not the height she preferred. While I say I'm 5' 9", a doctor measured me an I ch shorter. Then it was our proximity. Meeting online and believing we were in the same state, turned out she was in California and I was in Las Vegas. We made it work though and now we're in the same state and married.