There are many things that comes with being married that doesn't particularly revolve around marriage itself. While it is a necessity to provide, provision is a fundamental that must be sustained no matter what realm of life a person is in. Being married only intensifies the demand. The Bible actually says that if a man doesn't work than a man doesn't eat. So it's our mission in life to work for and towards bettering ourselves and all of those we can. Whether you're married or not. Some might look at the scope of the matter and reason that the concept is easy, but the reality is toilsome. That's not how it should be viewed though. As long as we put our faith and trust in Yahweh God Himself, our difficulties will merely be lesson that will give us the strength to not give up.

This is a PSA, men also have feelings. We don't want to be hurt or neglected or taken advantage of either. We are human, so the same way a woman needs love and validation, so do we. We want flowers and dinners and gifts. We sometimes need a listening and understanding ear. We're not asking for a lot, just the same thing that women want from us to be happy, there are things we want from women so we can be happy also. RELATIONSHIP'S ARE A TWO WAY STREET.

In a relationship, especially a marriage, the two people must give one another room to breathe. While jealous can be an emotion that could damage one's self, as well as the relationship, maturity can erase any concerns. As an adult, I have learned to realize that being overly consumed with something going wrong only hurts the person at hand. That's why it's so important to give your significant other the space that they need to be who they are. If something is meant to be then it will be. If it's not meant to be there is nothing we can do to change that. So by giving the room to breathe to your mate, you will know sooner than later if things will turn out as you want them to.

Not only do opposites sometimes attract one another, but they sometimes even have a promising future together. Although me and my wife are not each other's type, per say, we've been married for two years and counting. We have also overcome atrocities, but with faith and love, we stand strong and dedicated in our commitment. Leaning firmly on our motto, I GOT YOU, YOU GOT ME, YAHWEH GOT US.