The internet has no shortage of people calling themselves Dominants. Aaand perhaps that's the problem. Dominance isn't a title you slap onto your profile and it isn't an automatic entitlement to someone else's obedience. It's a responsibility, a relationship, and a form of power that has to be willingly given. So let's talk about what being a Dominant actually means, and why the person with the most power isn't necessarily the person who understands power best.