The narcissist thrives on keeping you stuck in confusion. They don’t want you to process, heal, or move forward they want you questioning yourself, replaying every moment, and begging for answers they’ll never give.

Closure from a narcissist is a trap. If they were to explain themselves or apologize sincerely, they’d lose the control they feed on. Instead, they twist the truth, gaslight, shift blame, and keep conversations unfinished all to remind you that your peace depends on them.

But here’s the reality: the closure you’re chasing will never come from them. It must come from within you. True healing happens when you accept their silence, recognize that their cruelty reflects their brokenness (not your worth), and reclaim your power by walking away. That’s when the cycle breaks and that’s when the narcissist truly loses.