Step 1- stop being a little bitch and take ownership and admit you have a problem!



Step 2- you have to break yourself down and make amends with yourself somehow figure out a way to let go of everything else and let God take control!



Step 3- LET GO! YOU ARE NOT IN CONTROL! No matter how bad you want to feel like you are definitely aren't when we tell God our plans he laughs hysterically because he's written his own you just don't understand yet! 



Step 4 - Remember you are a product of your own surroundings. Which means you have to carefully read between the lines and determine which ones want to see you down and which ones want to see you prevail! 80% of the time it's the ones you hold closest that want to see you fail the most! It might hurt to thin out your circle but don't sweat the petty stuff! Pet the sweaty stuff! Also keep it in your mind that the only place change starts as within yourself so the only way to get on your feet is to get out of your seat and get a second chance