Self-awareness is the first step in the art of surrender. It involves noticing where you resist life, cling to control, or obsess over outcomes. For example, feeling anxious about a job interview signals a desire to control the future. By observing your emotions (stress, fear, and restlessness) you recognize your attachment to a specific outcome. This awareness allows you to pause, acknowledge your urges, and separate action from attachment. Instead of forcing results, you focus on doing your best in the present moment, opening the door to true surrender and inner peace.