Hello!

Well this is pretty nerve wracking….writing your own blog!

I literally don’t even know where to start with this. I googled “how to start a blog” and well here I am.

I’m a 33 year old mom living in North Shore MA. I’m more conservative than I may care to fully share right off the bat…but we will ease into that.

I have a three year old daughter who is the light of my life! My fiancé and I got pregnant about 5 months into our relationship and well, here we are a little over 4 years later and headed for matrimony. Who would have thought 😅.

This was absolutely NOT how I planned. I was a “i’ll go to college, graduate, get engaged, get married, have kids, blah, blah, blah”. You know “the best laid plans of mice and men….” and well if you don’t know the rest then i’m thinking this blog may not be for you…but maybe it will who the hell knows. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I started with a life all planned out, and well as you probably could have guessed it definitely did not go the way I had planned or thought it would at all.

For starters my high school boyfriend of 10 years ended up cheating on me when we moved to a new state to start a real estate investing endeavor, all to be brought to a screeching hault when my dad had a heart attack and subsequently several strokes which changed the path we were on significantly.

Shortly after making my way through that mess, I was in a car accident that left me with a broken ankle never to be really fixed again. I don’t say that to be a Debbie downer, or just to be negative, it’s just the truth.

Despite all the BS I have the most AMAZING fiancé and daughter. I have tried SO hard to make my focus be the good in life and to

stay positive. No one wants to be around someone bitter, angry, and full of woe. I know I wouldn’t, and THAT is what this blog is going to be about.

I’m here to be a reminder of how when abut gets though the tough gets goin! You have to

push through, find the positive, and be a light others want to be around.

I hope to put out content people can relate to, debate about, and use to help find ways of their own to deal with the crazy shit life

throws at them.

Mostly, this blog will be about perspective. Thanks for checking it out. 😊