Have you ever experienced anything in your life that left you wondering, "why me?". Have you ever wondered, "why not me?". Wondering those can be triggered by any experience, good or bad. Wondering those can change every perspective in which you view your experiences, overall changing how you let your experiences change you. Sometimes, when you're amidst an experience in life you can become overwhelmed with emotions and that can ultimately lead you to a be consumed by the experience. When you're consumed by an experience it can become extremely difficult to genuinely understand it, to learn from it because the emotions you're experiencing create a chaos that's so almost like a dense fog... difficult to see through. Sometimes, you have to take a step back and allow the clouds to settle so you are able to reevaluate your experience clearly. Sometimes, no matter how many emotions are created, we have to learn to not only feel but to try and understand why we are feeling.