Men will do anything they can to get what they want from you. THAT P**SY 🐈‍⬛. Don't fall for it, EVER! They'll Sweet talk you, treat you "right" O O K smh... What is my take away??? Stay Single & SEXY!

Friends come and go. Always shaping your life. I found lifelong friends and then watched as those people left my life. My experience with the cycle of friends.

When I was 14, I developed a secret crush I thought I could keep hidden forever. I nicknamed him “Mr. Coolman” (and secretly “Mr. Sexy”), convinced no one would ever find out. But my younger sister had other plans—she waited for the perfect moment to blurt it out in front of our parents. My face turned red, my secret was exposed, and I ran outside not knowing if I should laugh or cry. Lesson learned: never trust your little sister with your biggest secret crush.

“They don’t deny you closure by accident they deny it to keep you trapped. The moment you stop looking to them for answers is the moment you take your power back.”

A raw, emotional reflection on the exhaustion that comes from giving too much and receiving too little. It speaks to the pain of feeling invisible, used, and unloved—of reaching a breaking point where hope runs dry and all that's left is emptiness.

A reflection on a fleeting love that felt like summer—warm, beautiful, but never meant to last. It captures the pain of believing in promises that were never kept and the heartbreak of being left behind.

This one is more for people in a relationship or anyone in your life that you work with mentally or spiritually everyday and it talks about how if someone is giving you 20% of their energy then you should be the other 80% and it goes the other way around

Surprising Fact/Statistic: Studies show that emotional wounds can take just as long or even longer to heal than physical ones, and the process is rarely a straight line. Key Points: • The Beginning of Healing: Healing often starts with awareness acknowledging the pain, trauma, or brokenness that needs attention. This stage can feel the hardest because it requires honesty, vulnerability, and facing emotions we’ve avoided. • The Process: Healing is not instant; it involves patience, small steps forward, and sometimes setbacks. It’s about building healthier habits, letting go of toxic patterns, and learning new ways to cope. • The End of Healing: The end of healing doesn’t always mean the pain is completely gone it means the pain no longer controls you. At this point, you’ve gained strength, perspective, and peace. What once hurt deeply becomes a part of your story, not the definition of who you are.

We’ve all been there love feels amazing at first, then suddenly it can break you in ways nothing else can. Why does it hurt so bad to care for someone? Why does heartbreak cut deeper than anything else? In this stream, we’ll open up about the real reasons love hurts, the lessons hidden in the pain, and how to move forward without closing your heart. “They say love heals… but why does it hurt the most?”

Atop of the pearly quilted and sunloathed bedsheets is fascination compared to the mysteries that sit in front of shot creature.

The read explores the hidden complexities behind perceived imbalances in relationships, emphasizing that a partner's lack of contribution often stems from invisible burdens like financial stress, parenting demands, health issues, grief from losing a parent, or past trauma. It highlights how comfort in a relationship allows vulnerability, where small favors signal a need for support rather than laziness. The piece dives into the transformative impact of parenthood, detailing the physical and mental toll and the importance of teamwork in sharing tasks like household chores or emotional support. It normalizes evolving relationship dynamics over time, noting how years together and adding kids shift intimacy and alone time, yet foster deeper connection through micro-moments.

I am not one who likes to blame how I am as a person based on the experiences I have gone through. However, I do believe that it can be a cause. YOU are the effect. How you take the trauma or the heartache and you shape it into who you are today.

I was thinking about you. Suddenly the words, "I love you" came out. I'm not sure I meant it, so why? I'm not done with your poems. Please don't hate me. I think it makes it awkward. Do you even care?

I was thinking about you. Suddenly the words, "I love you" came out. I'm not sure I meant it, so why? I'm not done with your poems. Please don't hate me. I think it makes it awkward. Do you even care?

In this episode of The Rap With Ry podcast (Season 5, Episode 1) I am speaking with my good friend Ajanae "Nae" C about her business ventures and the difference in an "dependent" woman vs an "independent" woman. Tune in as we cha it up and dive deep into our own opinions including likes and dislikes regarding the topic. Don't forget to leave a comment, we'd love to know your thoughts as well.

Have you ever been in a situation where you are doing well and then everything feels wrong, out of place...

Every time we try to pick up Noah, it’s a fight. Slamming doors, screaming, threats to call the cops. This isn’t co-parenting — this is chaos

This piece highlights the importance of the reality that comes with dating to marry. It's an indication of what can happen when it becomes a constant stillness.

Life feels hollow without them. Every breath becomes a question, every joy a guest. I raised them into a throne inside my chest and now nothing else fits. This is not a tale of pretty closure. It is a raw, tender devotion that refuses to be traded or tamed. If you have ever loved so completely that the world lost its color when they left, come read what remained after the light went away.

Hey, for once her is a journal entry that isn’t about how my relationship is falling about! Rather, it is about how my entire life is falling apart! Exciting!