Hi, I’m Erica B! By day, I’m your average office worker. But by night, I dive into spicy, dark, magical worlds like Crimson, my urban fantasy series about supernatural secrets, self-discovery, and small-town mysteries. When I’m not crafting stories, I’m tackling real-life challenges and sharing what I’ve learned to help others. Whether it’s exploring the eerie streets of Crimson or creating guides like “N.O.P.E. for the Holidays” to protect your peace, my goal is to connect, inspire, and remind you—you’re never alone.

"Seriously, It's Not You" explores the internalized self-doubt often experienced by children of parents with personality disorders. These parents project their insecurities onto their children, creating a critical inner voice that lingers into adulthood. The article reassures readers that their ability to self-reflect proves they’re not the problem and offers strategies to quiet that inner critic. By identifying the source of negative self-talk, challenging false narratives, and practicing self-compassion, readers can reclaim their sense of self and break the generational cycle of emotional harm.

The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy, but what if family gatherings feel more like a battlefield? N.O.P.E. Your Way to a Happy Holiday is your quick guide to setting boundaries and protecting your peace when dealing with toxic or abusive family members. With four key principles—Never give up on yourself, Open yourself to love outside of blood ties, Prepare to stand your ground, and Extend grace to yourself—this piece offers practical advice and encouragement for navigating the season with confidence and self-care. Remember, you deserve a holiday filled with joy, on your terms.