"I never realized how many people in this world are exactly the same and that they have lived this long; only to wake up one day to realize that they ignored themselves, gained everything they don't need and still have absolutely nothing...the last thing they realize is that it's too late." -JMC©2025

How did I realized I am transgender, more specifically non-binary? What does it feel like? What labels do I resonate with?

In a world driven by noise, distraction, and disconnection, it’s easy to forget that we were born with more than just physical senses. We were built with awareness—deep, natural intelligence that modern life has buried under technology, toxins, and social programming. But some of us never forgot. Some of us still feel everything. This letter is for the ones who remember… and for those beginning to remember now.

Your success isn’t just about hustle—it’s about who you’re hustling with. In this glow up guide, we’re diving into the power of your circle and why the people around you can make or break your dream life! From spotting draining energy to curating a confidence boosting crew, this read will help you align with friendships that match your magic. Who you surround yourself with matters! Choose wisely

MINDSET: The Greasy Gearbox of Your Brain (and How to Stop it From Grinding) Think of your mindset like the greasy gearbox of your brain. Sometimes it's smooth, shifting gears like a Formula One racer on a caffeine IV. Other times? It's clunky, rusty, and sounds like a dying badger trying to operate a cement mixer. That, my friends, is when your mindset is working AGAINST you.

Detail of my daily struggle with medical conditions and housing impaired, 2 giant dogs, and staying sane

Moment in my life when I was having trouble to understand that things in life are better on your own then following instruction by others.

How to Set Goals and Actually Achieve Them Let's be real: goal-setting sounds easy. You write down what you want, maybe say it out loud a few times, and wait for the magic to happen, right? Not quite. The truth is, most people don't reach their goals-not because they're lazy, but because they lack strategy. So let's fix that. This guide breaks down the art of goal-setting and the science of follow-through, so you can stop dreaming and start achieving.

Your dream life isn’t waiting- It’s being built. This article breaks down exactly how to set powerful, realistic goals; and actually achieve them. From finding clarity to building systems and staying motivated, this is your step-by-step guide to turning intentions into results. Whether you’re chasing personal growth, career milestones, or lifestyle changes, this article will help you stay on track and level up with confidence!

I know I said I would get into the details but I'm going to jump further ahead into the story... It's present day April 10, 2025. It's been a year since my mom passed. It seems like just yesterday. Today is especially hard for me and yet even though they all know this these people that keep messing with me just don't seem to care. You can find some of the videos I took with my security camera on my YouTube page. The audio needs to be cleaned up so you can hear it better but anyone is welcome to do that. It's @SandraSuarez-j4p if anyone's interested.

Wise people appreciate the value of controlling one's temper. Never assume that others are out to harm you. Get all the facts before making an important decision or passing judgment on others. Avoiding becoming easily offended can improve your life and relationships.

my mom and I went to California to visit some family and have some adventures I guess. I think 40 percent of the time me and my mother argued. Which isn’t unusual for us. We tend to butt heads a lot. On my last full day in California, we went to this boardwalk. It was cool, it kinda reminded me of a movie about friendship and memories from the 2000s. I don’t know, I guess it kind of just gave me that vibe. We stayed there all day. It was me, my mom, my tia Selena and my 2 cousins. We went to the beach part, and it was so unreal. The ocean was almost hypnotic. You can see the waves crashing down on themselves, the birds soaring above, and the smell of funnel cake coming from the boardwalk. When we reached the water my cousin dared me to go for a swim, even though it was freezing cold. So, me being me, I took off my shoes and started walking. If you had asked me at the moment if it was too cold, I would've been too busy chattering my teeth to answer.

I wrote this essay out of impulsive emotion at 3 AM in the morning . This essay is a passionate, unapologetic critique of how women have been oppressed, silenced, and devalued throughout history — and still are today. It explores the emotional and societal toll of gender roles, toxic masculinity, and systemic inequality, while challenging the normalization of female suffering in relationships, motherhood, and identity. Through raw reflection and bold truth-telling, it questions why women still have to fight for basic rights and respect in a society that fears their independence. It’s not just a rant — it’s a reckoning, a demand for accountability, and a call to reclaim the worth of every woman.

Some prisons have no bars. Some deaths happen long before the body gives out. This is what it sounds like when silence speaks.

San Antonio. The name used to conjure images of sun-drenched plazas, the gentle flow of the River Walk, and the vibrant pulse of Texan hospitality. For me, it became the cage. Not one built of iron bars and concrete walls, but one woven from whispers, veiled threats, and the insidious tendrils of psychological manipulation. This isn't a story of a dramatic crime or a sudden, violent act. This is the chilling account of how an entire city, brick by silent brick, pushed me into an isolation so profound it threatened to swallow me whole. How did it happen? How does a community, seemingly ordinary, turn into a collective force capable of such calculated cruelty? This is my story of survival.

An introduction to surviving 2025 as a teenage girl. A short text description of what this blog will be about overall.

Day 2: What its like to find out you have Borderline Personality Disorder. In this note, and future notes, I will refer to Borderline Personality Disorder as BPD. Please do not confuse BPD as Bipolar Disorder as I will not be addressing that mental health diagnosis(I will mention it once). TRIGGER WARNING: There will be mention of: Self Harm, Suicidal Ideations, Different Forms of Abuse, AND Addiction issues. These are all a REALITY of my life. If any of these things trigger you, this is not the place to be.

Day 1: What its like to find out you have Borderline Personality Disorder. In this note, and future notes, I will refer to Borderline Personality Disorder as BPD. Please do not confuse BPD as Bipolar Disorder as I will not be addressing that mental health diagnosis(I will mention it once). TRIGGER WARNING: There will be mention of: Self Harm, Suicidal Ideations, Different Forms of Abuse, AND Addiction issues. These are all a REALITY of my life. If any of these things trigger you, this is not the place to be.

💕In today’s world, the quest of fame is more attainable than ever. But how? Are you still spiraling on where to start? Whether you dream of becoming an actor, musician, influencer, or entrepreneur, it's possible to build recognition and establish a lasting reputation while still young. However, achieving fame at a young age requires a blend of talent, strategy, persistence, and a bit of luck. Here's a guide to help you navigate the journey of becoming famous at a young age:

There are many things that happened in a short amount of time and not enough time today to write it all out. Being a mom of three under four is not easy and very time consuming.