I was told my kids if you have to hide what you're doing or saying you shouldn't be doing it. I truly believe that you should stand up and be able to back up for everything you say and everything you do, if not what's the point? If you have to be sneaky and hide what's the point if I'm going to put time and energy into something it's going to be my effing Facebook post. I never wanted to lie to my kids about who I was and their whole life would be a lie kids are just people too sure they're your kids unconditional love that's another stream, good people are good people I wish for my kids to be good people and the only way I can help with that in any way is by being a good person myself. I've really been working on myself this last year and a half and just to make myself feel better but I realized today that I'm not a nice person, I'm a good person though you don't have to be nice to be good.